Couples Reduce Anger By Sharing Tasks
Often the problem is the other way around: many married woman justifiably complain that they too work yet are expected to do their “second job” once they get home at night. Either way, a major breakthrough can be achieved by a couple sitting down with a pencil and paper, listing all the household chores, drawing…
Understanding marriage behavior doesn’t solve problems
Often couples spend hoiur after hour trying to understand each other or the root of a problem or issue that bothers them. Sometimes this is helpful, but more often than not, understanding a marital issue doesn’t necessarily provide the tools to change it. Take the case of Karen who become terrified every time husband Ted…
Treat spouse as you would a friend
As an experienced marriage therapist as well as anger management trainer, I am often amazed at how badly people in relationship treat each other in comparison to how they treat their co-workers or same-sex friends. Things sometimes get to the point of contempt, which is a major predictor of divorce, according to recent research the…